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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 07:38

How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Ask yourself:

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

That's it for today.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.